The Relational Repair Playbook
Tools, scripts, and community wisdom for repairing ruptures without abandoning accountability
Learn the skills to foster deep, meaningful relationships.
If you’ve ever felt like meaningful relationships are just out of reach, whether you’ve been conditioned by an individualistic society or a collectivistic culture that demands self-sacrifice, you’re not alone.
Relational skills are the missing link to true interdependence.
What you’ll get:
✔ A 70-page PDF you can use right away
✔ Plain-language scripts for both sides of the rupture
✔ The 3R’s repair framework + check-backs
✔ Micro-scripts for texts, letters, and live talks
✔ Boundary vs. rule guide (with “path back” language)
✔ Post-episode repair + ongoing maintenance rituals
✔ Worksheets: your repair plan & commitments
✔ Booklist + further resources
Boundaries aren’t enough - Repair isn’t enough.
The real work is learning how to build interdependence, connection that honors both your autonomy and your need for community.
Who it’s for (and not for)
This is for you if…
ND/MI is in the room and you want repair without shame.
You value accountability, pacing, and dignity.
You like concrete language you can copy/paste.
It’s not for you if…
You want a clinical or legal manual.
You’re looking to punish, test, or “win.”